Biblical Counseling
Elements of Biblical Counseling
The counseling team will use all of their Biblical counseling training & skill to help you solve the problem is depriving you of the peace & joy that God has promised in His Word. The counselors will concentrate on four essential elements from Scripture:
Understanding Your Problem — because of the need to apply Biblical principles to all your difficulties, not just “fix your feelings” or change your circumstances. The counseling team, in a spirit of gentleness, will make Biblical inquiry into the various levels of your problems & help you gain God’s perspective on your difficulties (based on Proverbs 18:13; Isaiah 55:8–9; Mark 7:20–23; Romans 5:3–5, 8:28–29; Galatians 6:1–4; Hebrews 4:12; James 1:2–4, 19, 22-25, 4:17).
Your Hope — because in Jesus Christ you have a great High Priest who has been tempted in all things, yet without sin. Even though you may currently be going through a difficult test or even though every sin common to man may be tempting you, God has promised that he will not allow any trial in your life that is beyond your endurance. He has promised to provide a way of escape so that you may be able to endure it without sinning (Romans 6:11–13; I Corinthians 10:13; Hebrews 4:14–16). He will use trials for your benefit as you respond to them in a Biblical manner (Romans 8:28–29; James 1:2–4).
Your Change — because in Christ you can learn how to lay aside the old selfish ways of living & put on the new ways of living in a manner worthy of the Lord. In learning to change Biblically, you will begin to please the Lord in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work & increasing in the knowledge of God (Ephesians 4:20–24; Colossians 1:9–12).
Your Practice — because you need to prove yourself to be a doer of God’s Word & not merely a hearer, thus forgetting what kind of person you are & deluding yourself. Only in becoming an effectual doer of the Word will you be blessed in what you do, & only then will you please the Lord (Hebrews 13:20–22; James 1:22–25; I John 3:22).
Waiting Period
If a counseling team is not immediately available to begin a continued counseling period with you, you will be counseled as soon as possible on a one-time basis. During this session, your counselors will provide a plan for you to follow while you are waiting for the regularly scheduled sessions. You may be encouraged to attend an ongoing Biblical Principles course while you are awaiting counseling, allowing you to work on solutions to problems immediately.
Length of Counseling
Normally, counseling sessions will last about one-and-a-half hours each week & will continue for approximately 8–10 weeks. If you respond quickly to Biblical counsel, the number of counseling sessions may be shortened. However, if the counseling team does not observe definite change in the first few weeks, they will seek to identify the cause of the failure, discuss it with you, & help you to correct it.
Counseling Appointments
Because the counseling period requires consistency & faithfulness in you applying God’s principles, it is important that you reserve the designated counseling time for the entire counseling period, barring unforeseen circumstances (based on Luke 4:27–30; I Timothy 4:7). If you find that you are unable to come to a particular counseling session, please notify the counselor at least 24 hours before the sessions.
Please Note: The Otterbein Counseling Ministry generally has a waiting list for those who desire counseling. Hence, counselees who do not notify the counselor of an absence & who miss two consecutive weeks will be considered as no longer committed to Biblical counsel. The counselors will be reassigned, & counselees will be placed at the end of the waiting list for future sessions.
Otterbein Church Involvement & Biblical Counseling
In order to achieve lasting victory over the problems of life, it is vital that each person become established in a consistent Christian walk. The Lord has provided the church to help in this process (Hebrews 10:24–25). Therefore, it is important that Biblical counseling sessions be accompanied by church activities that encourage discipleship & fellowship.
If you do not have a church home, you are welcome to join us
in our church’s fellowship. If you are part of another church family,
the assistance of your church leadership may be requested so that you
may even more fully receive the benefit of all the spiritual resources
given to you by God. One of your pastors, elders, or deacons may even
become part of the counseling team to provide the most effective help
for you. It is our commitment to do what will best help you walk in
obedience to God’s Word & thus experience victory over your problems.
Materials Needed & Expectations
You will need a notebook, a Bible, & the Self-Confrontation Manual at all sessions, including the first session. Be sure to bring them each time. Come with high expectations. You will find hope & encouragement even during your first session.
From then on, with your cooperation, we are confident that you will find trustworthy & Biblical answers for the difficulty that prompted you to contact us.
Otterbein Church provides lay Biblical counseling to those who want to work on the challenges of life from a Biblical perspective. Please review the information below which provides an overview of the Biblical Counseling Ministry at Otterbein.
Click here to download (PDF) an application to receive Biblical counseling at Otterbein.
Biblical Counseling is a Ministry
Biblical counseling is a ministry that all committed believers within
the body of Christ are to have toward all who have need (based on
Matthew 28:19-20; Romans 15:14; Galatians 6:1-5). The Biblical
counselors deal with a broad range of problems. It includes broken
marriages, parent-child relationships, depressions, alcohol and drug
abuse, tension, turmoil, anxiety, fear, worry, and any number of other
problems resulting in spiritual, mental and physical distress.
Professional vs. Lay Counseling
Otterbein Church’s counseling ministry is done by lay persons from Otterbein Church who are trained in the use of the Bible & the principles of Biblical counseling. Our counselors are committed to the belief that the Bible provides the only authoritative guide for a relationship with God & with other people (2 Timothy 3:16-17). Our counselors do not base their counseling knowledge on their own opinions, experiences, or concepts, nor do they base them on the opinions, experiences, or concepts of others. Modern therapeutic techniques & principles of psychology are not used as a part of the counseling, & our counselors in no way claim to be “professional” nor are they “professionally” trained.
Otterbein’s counselors are trained by the lay
leaders within the counseling ministry & are under the supervision of
the pastoral staff. Our counselors use only the Bible as the basis of
their counseling & are trained in Biblical principles which apply to
the full range of problems & issues men, women, & children face in a
contemporary culture. Otterbein’s counseling does not advocate any
specific theological emphasis or any practice not specifically addressed
in the Bible.
Focus & Fees of the Biblical Counselor
Biblical counselors provide their time & energy as a service to God & as a ministry & expression of love to others (based on I Thessalonians 2:7–8; I Timothy 1:5). Therefore, each counselor serves without any charge or fee, or any financial requirement, actual or implied.
Team Counseling
At Otterbein, counseling through our counseling ministry is always done in teams. Team counseling has many practical benefits & is supported by Biblical teaching (Proverbs 11:14, 15:22, 18:17, 20:18, 24:5; Matthew 18:16). Normally, sessions are conducted by a team of counselors with one responsible for leading the team & one or two others assisting. There may also be times when a leader in the counseling ministry or one of the pastors may sit in on the session.
Counselees are also vital members of the team as they seek to solve the problems in their lives. The most important member of the team, however, is the Lord Himself, in the Person of the Holy Spirit. He is the One who will provide the hope, the strength, & the wisdom through God’s Word to solve problems (John 14:26; Romans 5:3–5, 8:26–27; Ephesians 3:16).
Biblical Counseling is Discipleship
Biblical counselors are committed not only to help you overcome the
current problem in your life but also to train you to live your life
in a manner that leads to increasing growth & maturity in the Lord
(Psalm 119:165; Proverbs 2:6–12a; Galatians 6:1–5; I Timothy 4:7–8; I
John 5:1–5). Thus, in a scriptural sense, Biblical counseling is a
ministry of discipleship that teaches you to walk in God’s way in the
midst of any problem (based on Matthew 28:19–20; I Timothy 1:5; II
Timothy 2:2). During the counseling period, it is the responsibility of
the counselee to contact one of the counselors on a weekly basis for
accountability. The counselors will continue to be available to you for
future encouragement after your counseling has ended.
Confidentiality
Trustworthiness is an important commitment & quality of our Biblical counselors. If deemed necessary, the Biblical counselors may talk with the pastor or member of the leadership team for additional guidance about your particular situation. These individuals are often able to provide insight in these situations. It should be clear that no information will be shared with others outside of the counseling team beyond what is necessary to help solve your problems & help you respond in a Biblical manner. Furthermore, if any member of the counseling team or leadership is called to testify in court, the counselor will not withhold information asked of them.
If you are suicidal, threaten to harm yourself or others, or reveal to the counselor that you have committed a crime, the information will not be considered confidential & may be communicated to anyone who can intervene to provide protection to you or others as determined by the counselor in consultation with the leader of the counseling ministry & the pastoral staff.
Medical Needs & Biblical Counseling
Biblical counselors believe in considering the total health needs of the
counselee. The counseling team may recommend that you have a full or
specified medical examination at your expense. If medical issues arise & treatment is required, counseling will continue at the same time,
whenever possible. Biblical counselors are not members of the medical
profession & do not give medical opinions on the use of medications or
other medical issues.